tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.comments2023-11-03T06:28:07.108-07:00Best When Used ByBest When Used Byhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17252417951291793892noreply@blogger.comBlogger2009125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-46247673747548410272021-10-18T08:45:18.185-07:002021-10-18T08:45:18.185-07:00Dear barren women,
Accept the fact that children ...Dear barren women,<br /><br />Accept the fact that children are a privilege, and remind yourself that many people live happy and fulfilling lives without parenthood.<br /><br />You have the necessary alternatives, like adoption, to fulfil the desire, and your mental frustration can be resolved if you rid yourself of your toxic feelings of entitlement. You can be happy without children, but not if you’ve convinced yourself that you were meant to have them. Human beings can adjust to unbelievable hardships, as long as they accept that life doesn’t owe them anything.<br /><br />Not having children is a very minor problem compared to what some people endure, and the fact that it requires the creation of another person without their consent should be adequate proof that it isn’t a right. Yet by identifying as “infertile” you’ve chosen to align yourself with a group of women who view parenthood as a human right. Saying that you are “desperate” for a baby sends the same message, as though a baby was a basic human entitlement like food.<br /><br />The maternal instincts of humans are strong, but they are not outside of your control. You can satisfy your desire for parenthood and nurturing by adopting, just like everyone else who finds themselves infertile at the time. It is only to be expected that you’ll have moments when you long for a biological child, but you decide if you will allow yourself to wallow in your longing or if you will focus on finding more productive ways to spend your time.<br /><br />If you are truly depressed then it isn’t because you are infertile, but the belief that you are being denied something that you are entitled to could contribute to your problems. It’s not infertility in itself that will hurt your emotional health, it’s the way you think about parenthood. A lot of the same women who identify as "involuntary childless" are the same ones who define femininity by motherhood, and with that attitude, not having children begins to equal not being a woman – and that idea could contribute to a crisis.<br /><br />I want to make one thing absolutely clear: If you believe that you are suffering from depression, you need to seek help from a professional. If you used the word “depressed” more colloquially to say that you feel sad and unhappy, you may still want to discuss your feelings with a therapist, but sadness and frustration would be a normal response to being robbed of something that you view as a human right. That is obviously not what is happening to you, but emotionally you will respond to events as you experience them as opposed to how to they really took place.<br /><br />Infertiles often talk about discrimination and stigma. Natural selection declares that not every single individual is supposed to reproduce. Infertiles do not want to accept this, so they choose to believe that women are being denied something in an act of discrimination. Being the victim of discrimination multiple times a day, being denied something that you are entitled to, and watching as everyone else but you experiences what you want would be extremely upsetting. That’s not what’s going on though, so happiness can be found by shedding your voluntary delusions.<br /><br />You are not entitled to children, you don’t deserve to create and own a living creature, and the fact that nature itself has declared this speaks volumes to that. You do not need children, and you can be happy without them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-41293310207607511602021-08-17T08:57:49.423-07:002021-08-17T08:57:49.423-07:00Old hag...Old hag...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-52716056025084411642021-08-17T08:35:44.899-07:002021-08-17T08:35:44.899-07:00/mina-in-nyc.blogspot.com/
owner of blog = a lose.../mina-in-nyc.blogspot.com/<br /><br />owner of blog = a loser...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-53280968179706412892018-12-09T03:26:13.497-08:002018-12-09T03:26:13.497-08:00Your body will work at a superior rate, and as we ...Your body will work at a superior rate, and as we develop more established we will in general be more in danger at contracting ailments and it is likewise harder to shed pounds. So beginning on a decent weight reduction quick eating regimen is going to enable you to carry on with a more drawn out and more beneficial life in a provocative body.<br /><br /><a href="https://ideal-shops.com/" rel="nofollow">https://ideal-shops.com/</a>Syedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02616447591707921327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-7997095270732670092016-06-14T17:36:18.965-07:002016-06-14T17:36:18.965-07:00I've just found your blog! Honey, I hope you&#...I've just found your blog! Honey, I hope you're doing fine now. I hope your dream came true! My dh and I were ttc for a very long time. I've got pregnant in 2009 and we thought that finally our prayers were heard. Unfortunately my pregnancy ended with a miscarriage. We've lost our son and it was shocking for whole our family. I couldn’t get back to life for a long time. I’m glad I have my dh. He gave me support I needed the most. We wanted to have kids so much, it was our only dream. Living childless life wasn't a variant for us. We were thinking about adoption at first. But we wanted our child to be genetically related to our family. Still I had some doubts. My dh looked at this procedure positively. It would be his child anyway. I thought I would be just some woman, who will carry a baby. I have a fear, that everyone will notice it's not mine. I thought it will be obvious and people will talk about it... Also I watched a tv show about de ivf. Some children started to look for women, who shared eggs with these kids' mothers. That was so sad. Those mothers didn't deserve such attitude. They made everything possible their children to have all they need and even more. And here is gratitude. But as this procedure was our only solution of our problem, I made a decision to do it. I should say de ivf is a very good option. I had this procedure in 2014. I've got pregnant from first attempt. We were on seventh heaven! Our girls were born in May 2015. We've just celebrated their first birthday. We used Ukrainian clinic BioTexCom. We are happy parents now! I have no regrets. As soon as I knew I'm pregnant all doubts were wiped out. We decided not to tell our daughters we used donor eggs. I think children' mind is not ready for such info. This fact will change nothing for them. The most important is to give them love and care. I consider myself as their only mother. This is everything they need to know.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12382555897352755498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-36924576277863598392010-08-04T15:33:22.140-07:002010-08-04T15:33:22.140-07:00This is just hilarious. I love it. I'm a doc m...This is just hilarious. I love it. I'm a doc myself. Open mouth, insert foot. I guarantee she was spacing out at that moment.donstephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09972425481373212190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-20163223552970824102010-05-10T14:09:42.166-07:002010-05-10T14:09:42.166-07:00I was so pleased when my newly appointed OB said a...I was so pleased when my newly appointed OB said at my post-partum visit, "I don't suppose you're interested in birth control." My answer was very similar to yours. <br /><br />Eggs I've got. The rest of it sure as heck doesn't work on its own!Wombdedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12774152022821286259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-9256695429496904502010-04-06T15:16:55.399-07:002010-04-06T15:16:55.399-07:00That's pretty funny. I wish I had the problem...That's pretty funny. I wish I had the problem of being over-fertile and needing birth control. What a wonderful 1-year anniversary! Enjoy!Kara's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07318794767415969151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-5806747089550663312010-04-06T14:16:19.186-07:002010-04-06T14:16:19.186-07:00ha! aren't doctors funny!? ive had obs ask me ...ha! aren't doctors funny!? ive had obs ask me about bc before too and its entertaining to explain that lesbians dont typically fall pregnant by accident! ;~) <br /><br />what a happy one-year anniversary to celebrate today. crazy how much can change in 12 months!anofferingoflovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14787985680863798995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-44690211992674701122010-03-26T17:34:56.872-07:002010-03-26T17:34:56.872-07:00This is a duplicate request. (I left a comment on ...This is a duplicate request. (I left a comment on your about page on your new blog...sorry.)<br /><br />If you approve I would love to have the password to follow your journey. I am a 42 year old first time Mom of an amazing daughter. I love your blog and would love to be able to read your updates on this wonderful new chapter in your lives. Congrats and get ready for the best ride of your life! Thanks in advance.<br /><br />My email is schamp(at)embarqmail (dot)com.suz1998https://www.blogger.com/profile/12537632283641315301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-55231553106531870292010-03-16T11:29:12.304-07:002010-03-16T11:29:12.304-07:00Hi, I need the info for the new site.
Thanks
EbHi, I need the info for the new site. <br />Thanks<br />EbEbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06674801997007886433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-35382685737422000242010-03-11T17:30:53.079-08:002010-03-11T17:30:53.079-08:00Hi-
So excited for you!
Hoping to ready all abou...Hi-<br /><br />So excited for you!<br /><br />Hoping to ready all about baby boy!<br /><br />Susan<br />PS- I guess I need a passord?<br /><br />ThanksSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15933200890226884313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-56601342715406127102010-03-10T13:51:13.010-08:002010-03-10T13:51:13.010-08:00looking seriously awesome - good luck :)looking seriously awesome - good luck :)EChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16272673966241658819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-21000640115529174342010-03-09T13:29:30.096-08:002010-03-09T13:29:30.096-08:00I've been reading for so long, but had to comm...I've been reading for so long, but had to comment, you look great and good luck on Wednesday!Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15933200890226884313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-48453777377428891222010-03-08T23:06:25.604-08:002010-03-08T23:06:25.604-08:00Good for you for all you did!
I can't imagine...Good for you for all you did!<br /><br />I can't imagine coming face to face with the former coworkers in an awkward situation like that. I think it is so great that baby BWUB has become your courage to help you get through these difficult situations with you coworkers and mom. How empowering!<br /><br />And holy nesting! You soung just like me; going, going, going right up until the end!<br /><br />I hope you can get some real relaxation in in these last couple of days! He'll be here before you know it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-89288447979908728592010-03-08T19:37:08.527-08:002010-03-08T19:37:08.527-08:00Sorry to hear that your mom is being such a pain. ...Sorry to hear that your mom is being such a pain. Crazy how she's planning on just coming back later and not even meeting her grandson...I can't even imagine how a grandmother could do that. <br /><br />DH is being so sweet worrying about you like that! It's great how he comes through for you in clutch situations like that.<br /><br />I can't wait for Thursday for you. It's so close...you're almost there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-55342053473396883862010-03-08T19:20:29.122-08:002010-03-08T19:20:29.122-08:00You're so adorable!!! Can't wait to see t...You're so adorable!!! Can't wait to see the little one taking up residence in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-1949084076160947722010-03-08T17:04:46.083-08:002010-03-08T17:04:46.083-08:00Look at your perfectly round belly! You look fant...Look at your perfectly round belly! You look fantasic!! :-)anofferingoflovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14787985680863798995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-72420306497237255082010-03-08T09:11:20.319-08:002010-03-08T09:11:20.319-08:00Gosh...it's here. He's almost here. Seems ...Gosh...it's here. He's almost here. Seems so crazy, and yet, about time!!! Wishing you the best this week. You and meinsideout both get to go the same day! I will migrate over to your new blog. Can I follow that? I couldn't tell. If you password protect can I be included. I think you have my email, but here it is again. speclk2 at hotmail dot com. Thinking of you!Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17891984751397130045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-61787369505413676792010-03-08T06:23:02.512-08:002010-03-08T06:23:02.512-08:00Your mom is just a piece of work. My bet is she wi...Your mom is just a piece of work. My bet is she will melt when BWUB jr shows up. BUT if she doesn't, are you seriously considering allowing her to do childcare? Not to worry about that for now, though! It seems totally bizarre to me that she is leaving right before the birth.<br /><br />You are doing great, I'm so excited he's almost here! I love how attentive dh is being, that's is how he SHOULD be. Making you feel cared for and all. Perfect. Take care and happy daydreaming!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-10757548962789863532010-03-07T07:31:59.884-08:002010-03-07T07:31:59.884-08:00Ack! Your mom is a piece of work! But once she see...Ack! Your mom is a piece of work! But once she sees that little guy she'll be less aloof. Her grandmotheriness will kick in, right?<br /><br />Good luck at the new site! I'll pop over and see how it's going!Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04180034761243431694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-47438620859478389642010-03-06T13:28:32.216-08:002010-03-06T13:28:32.216-08:00Dear BWUB,
Please send me your password for the ne...Dear BWUB,<br />Please send me your password for the new blog. Clairissap@gmail.com<br /><br />Can't wait to see a baby on your blog instead of an egg! ( no offense meant!) <br />All my buds are going over to wordpress - hmmm, now there's a thought!tireegal68https://www.blogger.com/profile/13943003575298698264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-55488841556494858312010-03-04T11:27:50.852-08:002010-03-04T11:27:50.852-08:00I'd love to follow your journey into parenthoo...I'd love to follow your journey into parenthood (if you'll have me). It's nice to know other embryo adoption moms! My email is cjleonhardt at spe.midco.net.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12798282017391489597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-50258734386659136232010-03-04T10:13:31.219-08:002010-03-04T10:13:31.219-08:00You won me over with your cantaloupe! Your blog ha...You won me over with your cantaloupe! Your blog has been both inspirational and entertaining. Thank you for sharing. <br />I would love to follow along on your journey, if you allow. <br />I am: bethchev2@aol.com <br /><br />BethJersey Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03861964473749078351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580382827478510871.post-53992523045960771632010-03-03T20:39:02.276-08:002010-03-03T20:39:02.276-08:00Yep, I've been thinking about starting a new b...Yep, I've been thinking about starting a new blog, too. I haven't decided if I want someplace to post where people I actually know can read, or if I just want to be able to put up photos...<br /><br />It's hard to be anonymous and completely real, eh?Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04180034761243431694noreply@blogger.com